We often trick ourselves into thinking we can get the same results as others without going through the tough stuff they did. This kind of thinking is a sneaky way our ego tells us we’re better or smarter. But, honestly, it just sets us up to be surprised and maybe even fail because we weren’t prepared for the real challenges.
Why We Should Think Differently
- Respect for Effort: Understanding and respecting how much work others put into their successes makes us appreciate their achievements more.
- Be Realistic: Knowing that success usually involves hard work helps us set better goals and really prepare for what’s ahead.
- Learn More: When we accept that things might be tough, we’re ready to learn and grow from the experience, just like everyone else.